Relationship - Attempt to conclude

It was a really lengthy discussion but full of content on Prashant’s Blog
I m gonna try to organize my thoughts here
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In a relationship what matters is ur faith, understanding and sacrifice 4 the other partner...these are the key to a successful relationship!
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I know I’ve said earlier that the only solution is deleting expectations
I totally agree that it’s just very tough to do!
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BUT…
It’s still confusing “=(?)=”
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How 2 make sure that u don’t fail in an R’ship?
B'coz when one fails…it’s awful and gives huge pain and not everybody can understand how is feels
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After this so called failure of the R’ship…He or she thinks about the cause of this failure... “Was I expecting a bit too more?”
And the word expectation comes once again…
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I agree that a relationship without Expectation would look worthless!!!
But it can prevent a lot of consequences.
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Let me now move the topic in another direction <>
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Can I run my car on 2 wheels? NO, It is the case with relationship too…
No matter how concerned I m abt it, I just can’t carry it by myself <
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We can generally classify phases of a relationship in good & hard times.
Good time is cool! Njoy it and have fun but…
Hard time is when u can test ur head and actually see what r u doing.
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I know if I just hang in there by keeping the faith in my partner I can come over hard phase of the relationship
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We all want that our relationships should flourish without any setback…right
BUT
R V sure that the one we are giving our anything any everything is the right one???
Ever thought of this, don’t know?
Again! I am NOT attempting to generalize anything
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One has to understand that the selection of your partner is very critical and there is no scope of error.
If one makes an error there then he or she will have to pay for it till the end of it..
Again I m mentioning something very complicated and one may say that it’s not practical enough
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I m sure when our partner understands things the same way every situation can be dealt with appropriately (adjustment is the name of the game)
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My heart says try your best to make sure u r with the right person and then just give everything Unconditionally
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After all it’s life - expectations and exceptions can’t be removed completely
One has to strike a balance of the two